You are not defined by your past. Not by the ways you’ve been hurt nor by the ways you’ve hurt others.

John 8:1-11 The Pharisees interrupt Jesus while He is teaching to drag in a woman they’d caught in the act of adultery and ask, “What should we do with her?”At the time adultery was punishable by death according to the law of Moses which all of them followed. The Pharisees were hoping to discredit Jesus by asking Him this question.
Basically the Pharisees are like Vizzini in The Princess Bride, pridefullyexpecting to win a battle of wits with Jesus.
If He agrees with the law He contradicts the message about love and grace He’s been teaching and therefore gets labeled a hypocrite.
If He sticks with His message, He contradicts the law and therefore gets labeled a heretic.

Instead of answering right away Jesus squats down and starts writing in the dirt.
“Well?” The Pharisees demand an answer.
Jesus stands up and says, “Is there anybody here who has never made a mistake? Anybody not even a little bit maladjusted? Anybody here faultless? Blameless? Sinless? If you are, go ahead, cast the first stone.”
Then He squats back down and starts writing in the dirt again.
One by one, they walk away starting with the oldest, who, naturally, has the longest fault-filled past.
When nobody is left except the woman Jesus asks her, “Where is everybody? Who’s here to sentence you, now?”
“No one,” she answers. It’s probably just dawning on her that she’s not going to die on the streets in shame that day.
“I’m certainly not here to pass sentence. Go and sin no more.”
The story ends. Hopefully the woman, and some of the Pharisees walked away asking “What just happened? Where do I go from here?”

Jesus didn’t let the Pharisees label or define Him and He offered the woman and the Pharisees a chance to walk away from the labels that created shame for them in that moment and be redefined by His message of love and grace.

Lord, let “Child of God” be the only label that sticks to me.