A plea for gentleness

A gentle answer turns away wrath, but harsh words stir up anger. Prov. 15:1

Many people in our culture seem to have the impression that communication that is strident and confrontational is somehow more effective. Being loud and angry might make people feel more powerful, but this is not the kind of power that creates lasting change in hearts, minds, or culture.  Gentleness takes a lighter touch. Gentleness listens, responds with respect and empathy, and creates rapport. Gentle responses open the door for genuine conversation. Gentleness allows people to consider one another as fellow human beings and to engage in civil consideration of one another’s ideas. Gentleness does not preclude disagreement, but tempers it with affection, humor, and common courtesy.

Lord, help the weary, the frustrated, and the wrathful, even those who believe they are justified in those feelings, to be able to hear Your gentle tone and to find the grace to use it with others.